At the time, I was recovering from oral surgery and trying to make the most of my summer. After a week of exchanging messages on OkCupid and texting back and forth, I finally decided it was the right momentโwell, “safe” momentโto meet him in person.
Little did I know that day would mark the beginning of a journey that continues to fill my life with joy and love.
Fast forward to today, and that once-nervous first date has turned into countless shared memories. One of the most special moments was when we decided to skip going out for a date night and instead planned a cozy evening at my place.
The activity? Baking Banana Cake with Cream Cheese Frosting together.
It was such a simple idea but turned into one of the best dates weโve had.
That evening was about more than just baking a cakeโit was about working together, enjoying each otherโs company, and savoring the sweet results of our effort.
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Equipment
- 2 Mixing bowls (large and medium)
- 1 Hand or stand mixer
- 9x13-inch baking pan (or two 9-inch round pans)
- 1 Whisk
- 1 Spatula
- 3 Measuring cups and spoons
- 1 Parchment paper (optional, for lining)
Ingredients
For the Cake
- 2 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
- 1 1/2 tsp baking soda
- 1/4 tsp salt
- 1 cup granulated sugar
- 1/2 cup light brown sugar packed
- 1/2 cup unsalted butter softened
- 2 large eggs room temperature
- 1/2 cup buttermilk (or substitute: 1/2 cup milk + 1 tsp vinegar, let sit for 5 minutes)
- 3 medium bananas mashed (about 1 1/2 cups)1 tsp vanilla extract
- 1 tsp vanilla extract
For the Cream Cheese Frosting
- 8 oz cream cheese softened
- 1/2 cup unsalted butter softened
- 3 cups powdered sugar sifted
- 1 tsp vanilla extract
Instructions
For the Cake:
- Preheat the Oven:Preheat your oven to 350ยฐF (175ยฐC). Grease and flour a 9x13-inch baking pan or line it with parchment paper.
- Mix Dry Ingredients:In a medium bowl, whisk together the flour, baking soda, and salt. Set aside.
- Cream Butter and Sugars:In a large mixing bowl, cream together the butter, granulated sugar, and brown sugar using a mixer until light and fluffy (about 3-4 minutes).
- Add Eggs and Vanilla:Beat in the eggs one at a time, then mix in the vanilla extract.
- Alternate Wet and Dry Ingredients:Add the mashed bananas and mix until well combined.Gradually add the dry ingredients to the wet mixture in three additions, alternating with the buttermilk. Start and end with the dry ingredients. Mix until just combined; avoid overmixing.
- Bake:Pour the batter into the prepared pan, smooth the top, and bake for 45-50 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean.
- Cool:Let the cake cool in the pan for 10 minutes, then transfer it to a wire rack to cool completely.
For the Cream Cheese Frosting:
- Cream Butter and Cream Cheese:In a large bowl, beat the cream cheese and butter together until smooth and creamy. Gradually add the powdered sugar, one cup at a time, mixing well after each addition. Stir in the vanilla extract.
- Frost the Cake:Once the cake is completely cool, spread the frosting evenly over the top.
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Notes
Frosting Consistency: If the frosting is too soft, refrigerate it for 15-20 minutes before spreading.
Storage: Store the frosted cake in an airtight container in the refrigerator for up to 4 days. Bring to room temperature before serving.
How About Alternatives?
If you want alternatives to the ingredients or methods in the Banana Cake with Cream Cheese Frosting recipe, you can explore many options to match various dietary needs and flavor preferences.
For example, when avoiding dairy, you can replace butter with a plant-based option like coconut oil or a vegan butter substitute. Swap buttermilk with almond milk or oat milk mixed with a teaspoon of vinegar to achieve the same tangy acidity that enhances the cakeโs texture.
You can also choose dairy-free cream cheese to create a frosting that stays equally rich and satisfying. For a healthier twist, replace granulated sugar with coconut sugar or maple syrup for natural sweetness. Substitute whole wheat flour or almond flour for all-purpose flour to add a nutty flavor and extra nutrients.
To reduce fat content without losing moisture, try replacing part of the butter with applesauce or Greek yogurt. These simple adjustments let you customize the recipe while maintaining the cakeโs deliciously indulgent character.
The Bottom Line
This luscious Banana Cake with Cream Cheese Frosting is a celebration in every bite. Moist, dense, and brimming with the natural sweetness of ripe bananas, itโs perfectly complemented by a rich and tangy cream cheese frosting.
Whether for a special occasion or a cozy weekend treat, this cake will delight your taste buds and warm your heart.